For every woman, a man's body is all hard angles and planes to be
caressed and discovered as each kiss unveils more and more about his likes and dislikes.
Read the description of the different types of kisses first and then close your eyes and fantasize about it.
By mentally imagining each kiss a few times, you will trick your mind and memory into thinking that you have already kissed that way and each kiss will find its proper place in your repertoire.
So, now when a 'real time' occasion comes up, you will not hesitate to follow through on your instinct and will place a perfectly timed, perfectly executed kiss on
the lucky guy who is with you at that moment. Because you'll know, which kiss to place and where:
The Basic Lip Kiss or (what I call), The Interlock Kiss
: In this kiss, you part your lips slightly and kiss one lip of your partner, while he kisses the other. Then you alternate lips. Make sure you tilt heads, so that your noses just brush and are not 'nose' on. (Full details on 'how to' are discussed elsewhere in this site).
The Shy Kiss: When either you or your partner is shy, then take a quick look round to make sure no one is watching before planting a closed, puckered up kiss on his lips. The 'quick-look-around-to-see-ifno-one-is-watching', gives this short and sweet kiss, it's name.
The Stolen Kiss: When your partner is least expecting it and you suddenly lean forward and steal a quick kiss from his lips. The fun lies in the surprise.
The Quick Kiss: This gentle kiss reassures and warms and is given by your man and your shows you he cares. He'll place his lips over both of yours to give you, a quick kiss filled with warmth and feeling. Try it when you know each other better.
The Quick Tongue Kiss: This kiss mimics the Quick Kiss described above, but with one difference. When your lips are encompassed by his he'll arouse you by quickly sliding his tongue in-and-out of your mouth. Use it to good effect, later on in your relationship.
The Mirror Kiss: In this erotic kiss, you kiss in front of the mirror and see your reflection (turn by turn) to turn yourself on even more. If only one partner likes to see the reflection in the mirror, then the other will kiss him or her shamelessly for the greatest effect.
The Talking Kiss: The talking kiss like its name includes whispered endearments or commands while you are kissing. If you don't say anything, your guy might think you aren't interested. So make sure you whisper blandishments like, 'God! You taste so good' because talking will create a deeper connection. Guys are normally very appreciative, so make sure you talk as well as listen.
The Laughing Kiss: The laughing kiss takes place when both of you are kissing and one of you (normally the girl) starts to giggle or laugh while kissing. It isn't because your partner is making fun of you, the reason is quite simply, that a smooch can be such fun and gives rise to such delicious feelings, that it is quite impossible resist the giggles bubbling up inside.
The Eye Kiss: The eye kiss is sensual, sweet and romantic and a great way to shower love and affection on your partner. Start with a small tiny kiss on one eye, then kiss the other eye and them move to the lips. You can of course do it mouth first and then the eyes, or the eyes first, followed by the lips; either way it is a warm and affectionate kiss.
Straight to the Heart Kiss: This one is my personal favorite and I truly believe it leads straight to the heart. Place a deep, heartfelt closed lips kiss on the outside of the left cheekbone, on the outer edge of the cheek. After you have placed a kiss there, tell your man, 'There that'll go straight to your heart now'. Then move on to the eyes and lips if you want to, or just leave it as a single kiss, branding his cheek with love and desire.
The Ear Kiss: Nibble gently on his outer ear and bite the ear lobe very gently. If he likes it you can also lick and trace the contours of the ear with your tongue and lips. Believe me, men find it very sexy and it will send shivers down his spine.
The Fight and then Make Up Kiss: As you'll soon discover, half the fun of fighting is in the making up. So when he walks off in a huff, follow him and in a very dominating manner, grab him either from behind (simply slide an arm around him waist) or from the front (by holding onto his arms) and give him brief hard kisses, till he forgives you. It's a great one for men too and when they feel your anger dissipating, then he'll gentle his kisses, till passion flares hot again. Keep in mind, passion is the other side of anger, so the madder one of you is, the hotter you'll both burn.
The Biting, Sucking, Licking, Sliding Kiss: This kiss can take place anywhere on your partner's body. For example, you can bite or nibble his shoulders, suck his fingers, lick his ear and place long sliding kisses up his arms, chest or neck. Consider his body to be an undiscovered plateau of pleasures and explore each body part, with the attention it deserves; by biting, sucking or licking .
The Phone Kiss: The Phone Kiss takes the place of the kisses you can't give till you meet again. It's very very romantic and every one loves them. Just purse your lips and make kissing sounds at the phone receiver and burn up the phone wires by sending them.
The Neck Kiss: Oh! Hot! Hot! Hot! This is one kiss that really sends the wires sizzling and will effectively short-circuit all coherent thought! Men normally don't get so excited by it, but women all but melt at the mere thought of one. The neck kiss is best begun if the man is behind you. He'll simply move your hair aside, and place a long lingering kiss. Then he'll kiss his way up and down your neck. When you arch your back and lifts up your face for easier access, he'll turn you to face him and continue pressing heated kisses, gentle nibbles and deep soul shaking licks, to your neck and shoulders. Make sure he checks out your collarbone too and then let him kiss his way to the smooth valley between your breasts. Results: one dazed, pliant, passionate you and one very turned on potent male.
The Eskimo Kiss: The Eskimo kiss is cute and cuddly and all you have to do is rub noses together. It is much more fun then it sounds and you can even have a mock nose fight. When you are both busy giggling over it, take advantage to share a different kind of kiss. So, it's a great ice breaker.
The Electric Kiss: Both of you should stand facing each other on a rug and then rub your feet on it. Then kiss quickly. The static electricity builds up to give a small electric shock which is very exciting.
The Wet Kiss: Any kind of kiss with your mouth open, is a wet kiss. It could be playful or passionate, and might or might not involve the tongue. Just be careful of one thing, swallow your saliva before you start and if you need to, take a break to keep it down. You could take a break by either moving backwards to look into his eyes, or by placing a different kind of kiss on his cheeks, neck or hands.
The Hollywood Kiss: In the true style of romantic movies, he'll sweep you over one arm, then bend you backwards over it, while he leans down to give you a deep, long fulfilling kiss. (Watch a few older style movies like 'Gone with the Wind' to see how it is done). Just be careful, you don't get dropped so try it with a man of experience first.
The Bad Boy: This is a kiss when you have your man dress like a stud, a gangster, a don ... Wear a leather coat, dark glasses and boots. Stand aloof next to the bar, or wall or lean up against a car, with his legs crossed, and hands on either side of you, propped against the bar. You get to do all the running, and kiss him while he acts all nonchalant and bored. It's great for a change and can really get the juices running.
The Bad Girl: In this kiss you can get all dressed up in 'whorish' clothes and make out together. It's a big hit with the men.
Lip Suction: In this kiss, you kiss either the lower or the upper lip, while your partner kisses the opposite one. Draw the lip you are kissing, into your mouth and suck on it, to create a vacuum like sensation. Then switch to the other lip. What's more, you can also suck his tongue gently and then retreat, to let him try it.
The Teasing Kiss: Have him stand or sit down, perfectly still. Tell him he cannot move, or kiss you back no matter what you do. Then start to kiss him slowly and gently, all over his body. Stretch out the anticipation as much as you can. However, make sure you stay away from the erotic zones, unless you are both familiar with each other, and you know that it's okay for the two of you to touch everywhere.
The Butterfly Kiss: Is a romantic, starter kiss. Lean close to your partner's cheek and flutter and rub your eyelashes against his cheek. Some men don't really think much of it, so play it by ear.
The Music Kiss: Normally you dance to the beat, but now you can kiss to the beat. At every beat kiss each other. If the music is slow, go for soft, deep, languorous kisses and if it is fast, try quick short ones either on the mouth or cheeks etc.
The Upside Down Kiss: When your man is sitting down on a chair and you have walked across to him, approach him from behind and bend over to kiss him. You can lean over and kiss him when he is sitting, or have him lie with his head in your lap (or vice versa) and lean over to kiss him. Since the angles change, everything looks and feels excitingly different.
The Vacuum Kiss: A lot of partners have never tried a vacuum kiss, so make sure you try it at least once, with every new partner. Simply cover his mouth with yours and try to suck out the air out of his body. Break apart to let each other breathe.
The French Kiss: The French kiss has been discussed in great detail, separately in this book. There is no right or wrong way to French Kiss, however the main thing is to be sensitive to your partner's needs and desires. Read his lips, does he want more, or has he had enough for the time being. Flicker the tip of your tongue, play chase and try different things to make your French Kiss sexy and fun.
The Torrid Kiss: This is a passionate, wet kiss, with a lot of hair pulling (not to hard though), passionate body rubbing, arching backs and desperate embraces. Start by kissing as normal and if your partner is responding, then unleash the passion.
The Car Kiss: Rule number one, be comfortable. Number two: Make sure you are parked in a safe spot, away from prying eyes. And lastly, the car is great for kissing, mainly because the smell of leather and car is a big turn on. A good car screams power and authority and makes the person driving it very sexy. Draw back before he has had enough and you can be sure of more car kisses, in the near future.
Kissing with Braces: Contrary to expectations, kissing with braces can be sexy and exciting. A little bit like someone wearing a tongue ring, only on a larger scale. The two main things you need to be careful of are: 1) good oral hygiene and 2) Pushing too hard – subtle and gently does the trick.
So have fun discovering the various types of kisses. Make sure you read all about the French Kiss, The Quick Kisses (tongue and no tongue), the Basic interlock kiss in other chapters, as well as the tips from the Kama Sutra.
As time goes by, you will for sure add more to these kisses. Till then practice them in your head and set out to capture the man of
your dreams, with a dangerous combination of innocence, confidence and knowledge, gleaned from the pages of this site!