If you are totally stressed
out, struggling to be someone you are not, you aren't
going to succeed.
Let it all go ... all the pretensions, all the desires to be something you are not.
Rule no 1, and your bedrock of success, is to be yourself.
The Psychology of Dating: Attitude
If you think no one will like you, they won't. If you think you
wouldn't be able to get man, you won't.
On the other hand if you think you can get a man, though maybe not
this one, than you will.
Instead of being all things to all men, just be yourself! That way you
will attract someone who is compatible with who you are and you
won't have to pretend to be someone you are not, just to keep him
Maybe you aren't a party animal, or a quiet girl ... So! There are men
out there who will like you for who you are, and remember no one ...
Absolutely no one will like you for who you pretend to be.
So if you are an outgoing personality, or an introvert, mad over
science or a book worm, relax there is a man for you and very soon
you will find him.
The Psychology of Dating: Confidence
Visualize going up to the man of your dreams and talking to him. Rid
your mind of all the negative thoughts that you have about yourself.
Don't be over anxious. Play it cool. Keep a poker face some of the
time. Arouse his curiosity, entice him into wanting to know you
thoroughly. Make him want you.
Don't be too desperate, ignore a little, flirt a little, smile a little, look
deep into his eyes a little ... and eventually you will kiss a little.
The Psychology of Dating: Imagination and Creativity
Watch some erotic movies to get ideas on how to
kiss the man of your dreams. Read books. Close
your eyes and imagine yourself doing all that and
When you tune into your sensual self, you will
become a sensual person and that sensuality will be
reflected in your eyes, (men just melt at sensuous coolly knowing
eyes) and you will intuitively know how to kiss, when to kiss and
where to kiss.
Be confident that your touch has the power to seduce a man. Look at
your hands and think of the power in them. Be aware of yourself ... who you are and what you think.
Stand up for your beliefs, be assertive and with that confidence will
come the imagination to experiment and indulge in erotic kissing and
You will be the one who will know what every man wants and
how to keep him wanting for more.
The Psychology of Dating: Experimentation
Keep your first few kisses short and sweet. Remember, teenage boys
like to collect scalps too. So if you are looking for one kiss, it's okay
to go ahead and all out, but if you want him to be with you for longer
than a day, stretch it out. Kiss him short and sweet and always leave
him wanting more.
Don't satisfy him totally and you'll see that with just one look or a
touch you will be able to arouse him.
Once you have got him hooked well and proper, you can then
experiment at will with your willing partner.
Try out all the tricks you have read about and then invent some of
your own. You are not limited by anything other than the limits you
impose on yourself.
So, set yourself free and discover a life of immense joy and eroticism.