Sexual vs. Non-Sexual Signals - "What are her expressions telling you?"
There are three important reasons you need to distinguish between the two:
It will help you not to get your signals crossed.
Reduce your chances of 'rejection'
Help you not to spoil a friendship which is platonic
* The following are sexual expressions, which are instinctive:
Crowd checking to see if there is someone interesting.
Brief glances at a particular person.
Turning her face and/or body towards you.
Looking at your lips
* Instinctive and yet practiced expressions:
Hair flipping or stroking hair repeatedly
Nodding often while talking
Stroking the area of her neck that is exposed.
Touching the hand, lacing fingers or holding hands
Playing with objects
* Totally practiced expressions:
Touching the hand, Lacing fingers or holding hands
Fiddling with clothes and settling them, even if there is no need to
Sitting or standing in a position that draws attention to a particular part of the body (like the breasts)
* The following are not sexual expressions
Interested in what you have to say
Fiddling with her hair (some woman like to do it and it means nothing much)
Simply flirting (it can and often means nothing, except a test of her own attractiveness)
So if the girl you are out with is generally having fun with you, it doesn't necessarily mean you can kiss her. You could read the signals wrong and spoil a friendship, or make a move to soon, and completely blow every chance you had.
The largest portion of communication, especially sexual communication, is done through nonverbal signals, most of which are beyond the scope of this book.
My good friend Derek Vitalio broke these secrets down to a science, and he teaches the in depth of how to pick up on disguised sexual signals women send.
With very detailed “how to” instructions, Derek coaches you on how to pick up and respond to these signals like a star using eye movement, vocal fluctuation, physical posture, and much more to sexually arouse and excite
just about any woman you want.
Most men completely miss out on hooking up with gorgeous women because they fail to pick up on these “just kiss me already!!” signals. There is a good chance your missing these... so I highly recommend you check out one of his newer courses here: Nonverbal Sexual Cuing
If your confident with your ability to pick up on their femine signals, great!
When in doubt, don't kiss her just let her touch you first, whether it is an arm brush or a torso touch.
Remember most girls are natural flirts and like to try out their arsenal of weapons on the nearest unsuspecting male. It could mean nothing and the one chance you could have in making it mean something, is by playing it cool and letting her make the first move.
Let her show you first, by look or action what she wants ... and then take it from there!